Really, Frederica Matthewes-Green follows up Guroian's article with her own much shorter piece. Regarding educating our kids, she states that there are three responses to the prospect of promiscuity that Guroian describes (and none work): to tell students to abstain because immorality leads to misery (failing because the libertines seem to be having such a good time); to emphasize the romance and glory of marriage (failing because kids see too much misery through divorce, etc. in many marriages); and to emphasize the importance of 'objective morality' as if the rejection of the concept of value is the problem (failing because kids have a standard of value and its different from ours).
The most hopeful response, according to Matthewes-Green, is to love kids and model God's love to them - well, at least its an quick and easy fix.
The other piece of good news is that Christian Smith, the uber-sociologist, has a new book analyzing the data on the religious beliefs of American teenagers - with an interview here. He's a brilliant and witty sociologist who typically brings a fresh approach to his work. For instance, when asked about the conventionality of belief among teenagers, he responded (rather encouragingly) -
there is so much yakking out there about spiritual questing, we've been conditioned to look for kids who can't stand traditional religion. But that's just not the case! Most kids are quite happy to go with whatever they are raised to believe.
That good news aside, Smith goes on to skewer evangelicals with the fact that they actually do an unimpressive job communicating the "language of faith" to their children in a way that helps them understand the profundity of the Gospel. Back to the depressing side:
we can say here that we have come with some confidence to believe that a significant part of 'Christianity' in the U.S. is actually only tenuously Christian in any sense that is seriously connected to the actual historical Christian tradition...this has happened in the minds and hearts of many individual believers and, it also appears, within the structures of at least some Christian organizations and institutions...Moralistic Therapeutic Deism (the de factor cultural religion) is not just an inadequate version of Christianity. It's a different religion.
But he does say that "one of the things that really hit us hard: that parents still have an enormous amount of influence on their kids' lives, even though I'm sure that's very hard for them to believe at times." Indeed.
At the end of the day, its a war of backdoor ideas and if we are watching at all, we are watching only the front.